Community Standards & Expectations
At Coe College, we believe a thriving community is built on shared understanding and mutual respect. This central hub is dedicated to fostering a safe and respectful campus environment by clearly defining our student policies, standards and expectations. The Student Conduct team oversees accountability processes and is committed to guiding and supporting our students with valuable resources and referrals.
Meet the Team:



Destini Robertson

Contact Us:
Key Resources:
1. Student Handbook
2. Tips for Positive Community Contribution
Think Before You Post: Key Social Media Guidelines
1. Humor Isn't Always Universal
What you find funny might not be funny to everyone else. Humor is subjective, and a post you intend as a joke could be seen as offensive or hurtful by others. Before sharing, consider if your content could bemisinterpreted or cause distress.
2. Choose the Right Forum for Concerns
Social media isn't always the best place to air grievances or address personal challenges. If you're going through a difficult time, or have a conflict (like with a roommate), consider reaching out to appropriate support systems. For example, Student Life staff can offer guidance and help resolve issues more effectively than a public post.
3. Understand Each Platform's Rules
Beyond reflecting Coe's Civility Statement, every social media platform has its own community standards and expectations. Familiarize yourself with these guidelines on platforms like Yik Yak, Snapchat, TikTok, X(Twitter), Instagram and Facebook. Violating these rules can lead to content removal or account suspension.
4. Always Get Photo Permission
Never post a photo that's solely meant for you in a public space. More importantly, always get explicit permission from friends or anyoneelse in a photo before you share or tag them on social media. Respectingothers' privacy is crucial.
5. Your Online Presence Matters
Your social media accounts are an extension of your personal brand. Friends, family, future employers, and even colleges may view your profiles. Ensure your online presence reflects your values and presents you in the best possible light. If something wouldn't be appropriate to say in an in-person conversation, it's not appropriate for social media.
6. Protect Your Privacy
While it's important to be truthful about who you are online, avoid sharing sensitive personal information that could compromise yoursafety or identity. Be mindful of what details you reveal about yourself andyour whereabouts.
7. Learn from Mistakes
We all make mistakes. If you realize you've posted something hurtful, insensitive or inappropriate, remove it immediately. Take responsibility for your actions and apologize to anyone who may have been negatively impacted. Learning from these moments helps you grow and improve your online conduct.
Important Reminders for Responsible Online Behavior
The Internet Never Forgets:
Once something is posted online, it's virtually permanent. Even if you delete it, copies or screenshots can persist and resurface years later. Consider everything you post as public and lasting.
Anonymity is Often an Illusion:
While some platforms offer "anonymous" posting, true anonymity online is rare. Technical means can often trace content back to its source. Don't assume you're untraceable, especially when posting anything potentially harmful or inappropriate.
The Power of Pause:
Just because you have the ability to post something doesn't mean it's the right choice. Take a moment to pause and reflect before sharing. Ask yourself: Is this necessary? Is it kind? Is it true? Is it helpful?
Your Words Have Real-World Impact:
Even if not intended, online posts can have significant and deeply hurtful consequences for those who see them. Text lacks tone, and what seems harmless to you could be profoundly damaging to someone else. Be mindful of the potential emotional impact of your content on your audience.
Navigating Interpersonal Conflict
1. Kohawks Listen Vigilantly
Actively Listen and Validate:
Go beyond just hearing; truly understand the other person's verbal and nonverbal cues. Reflect and paraphrase what you hear to confirm understanding, ask open-ended questions to encourage elaboration, and validate their feelings even if you don't agree with their perspective. Resist the urge to plan your rebuttal while they're speaking, focusing instead on absorbing their message completely.
2. Kohawks Chirp Clearly
Communicate Assertively and Specifically:
Use "I" statements to express your feelings and needs without blaming ("I feel... when..."). Be specific about the behavior you're addressing, clearly state what you desire, and maintain calm, open body language. Assertiveness also means recognizing and upholding your boundaries, even if it means taking a break from the conversation.
3. Kohawks Hunt for Solutions
Focus on the Issue, Not the Individual:
Separate the problem from the person, viewing it as a shared challenge to overcome. Avoid personal attacks or insults, and instead, look for common ground. Approach the issue collaboratively, brainstorming solutions together, as if you're both working to "attack" the problem, not each other.
4. Kohawks Cultivate Empathy
Practice Deep Empathy:
Make a conscious effort to see the situation from their perspective, understanding why they feel or act a certain way. Acknowledge their emotions and try to imagine yourself in their shoes. Remember that empathizing with their feelings doesn't mean agreeing with their actions; it simply means understanding their emotional experience.
5. Kohawks Share the Nest
Embrace Flexibility and Mutual Gain:
Be open to compromise and understand that neither party may get everything they initially wanted. Focus on solutions that offer mutual gain, explore multiple options, and be clear on your priorities. A willingness to make concessions signals a desire for resolution and respect for the other person's needs.
6. Kohawks Land the Flight
Recognize Escalation and Take Breaks:
If the conflict becomes unproductive, overly emotional, or disrespectful, suggest a timeout to cool down. Agree on a specific time to revisit the discussion. For complex or deeply emotional conflicts, consider involving a neutral third party like a mediator, and always prioritize the health of the relationship over "winning" an argument.
7. Kohawks Weather the Wind
Understand and Regulate Your Emotions:
Develop self-awareness about your emotional state during conflict, recognizing triggers that escalate your feelings. Practice taking a pause before responding to allow for a more measured reaction, and use techniques like deep breathing to regulate intense emotions, expressing them constructively when appropriate.
8. Kohawks Find the Right Perch
Select an Optimal Time and Place:
Always choose a private setting for discussions to avoid public arguments. Ensure you have sufficient time for a thorough conversation, and both parties are relatively calm and clear-headed. Sometimes, a neutral location can help facilitate a less confrontational discussion.
9. Kohawks Trace the Flight Path
Identify Underlying Needs and Interests:
Go beyond surface-level arguments by asking "why" to uncover the deeper needs, fears, or motivations driving the conflict. Focus on understanding interests, not just positions, recognizing universal human desires like respect and connection, and clearly communicate your own underlying needs.
Navigating the Conduct Process
Frequently Asked Questions:
What happens if I violate a policy?
If you violate a Coe College policy, you will be subject to one of the accountability procedures: Written Letter of Warning, Administrative Conduct Meeting, or Administrative Hearing Board. Failure to respond to an original meeting invitation or or attend an administrative hearing will result in an automatic hearing in your absence, a fine, a responsible finding in your disciplinary record, and additional sanctions. If you fail to complete assigned sanctions, an additional minimum fine per incomplete sanction will be assessed.
What are my rights in the Student Conduct Process?
As a member of the Coe College community, it is important for students to understand their rights during the conduct process. These rights include, but are not limited to the following:
- The right to a reasonably prompt and impartial process.
- The right to receive notice should there be good cause for a delay in the process.
- The right to share personal perspective and submit a personal statement regarding the incident.
- The right to submit relevant evidence and request the insight of witnesses to provide additional information directly related to the incident in question.
- The right to be informed of the outcome and receive appropriate sanctions.
- The right to appeal a finding of responsibility with an Appeal Officer.
What are common outcomes or sanctions for policy violations?
Sanctions for misconduct may involve various types, such as status, educational, restorative, loss of rights & privileges, support, and restriction sanctions. The specific outcome and assigned sanction will be decided by the conduct officer or hearing board, based on their findings from the case.
What is the appeal process for a conduct decision?
If you are found responsible for a policy violation in an administrative conduct meeting or hearing, you have the right to appeal. To appeal, you must submit the appeal form within seven days of the outcome letter being sent. An Appeal Officer will be assigned within seven days of your submission to review the appeal based on all available evidence and the information you provide. The Appeal Officer may request a meeting to discuss the appeal, but the case will not be re-heard. Appeals are considered on specific grounds: newly discovered evidence (not available at the time of the hearing) that would likely change the outcome, procedural errors that materially impacted the outcome, or sanctions believed to be disproportionate to the finding. The Appeal Officer will uphold, adapt, or overturn the original decision and provide a written rationale. The outcome of an appeal is final.
How can I report something anonymously?
To learn more about reporting options and procedures, visit the Report a Concern webpage.
While not required, we ask that reporters provide their name and contact information, so that Coe College personnel can connect to offer resources and support, as well as seek additional information. Being able to follow-up with reporters puts Coe College personnel in the best position to provide an effective response. We appreciate your willingness to report and assist our staff in their efforts to make Coe College a better place to live and learn.
Where can I find help if I'm struggling academically/personally?
- Academics: Coe College offers a variety of academic assistance resources for students, including the Learning Commons, the Office of Student Success & Persistence, and your academic advisor. These resources are designed to help students with everything from course selection and study skills to navigating college life and connecting with campus resources.
- Personal/Well-being: The Health and Wellness Office seeks to maximize student well-being by helping students reach their full potential. The office helps students minimize harmful behaviors while teaching students skills that promote healthy living. This is accomplished through offering; meditation, counseling, sleep programs, fitness classes and many other opportunities that promote growth across all dimensions of wellness.
Who do I talk to about a roommate issue?
For roommate issues, you should start by talking to your Resident Assistant (RA) for advice and to seek mediation. If further assistance is needed, professional staff in Residence Life can get involved for additional mediation or to facilitate other measures.
Upcoming Prevention Programming:
Root Kindness
Thursday, August 21
11:00 am - 1:00 pm
Outside the Caf
Join us for a special event where students will identify and commit to encouraging behaviors that will help kindness flourish throughout the year. Just like a tiny root, every act of kindness has the potential for incredible growth.
Report an Incident
This reporting page is available to all members of Coe College (students, faculty, staff), as well as members of the public to report concerns that arise on campus or concerns related to our community.

